Pressure to perform
Understanding and overcoming performance pressure in children

Summary: Performance pressure in children is a widespread issue that can manifest as anxiety, stress, and psychosomatic complaints. It can cause both physical and emotional symptoms such as headaches, fatigue, irritability, and concentration problems. The causes are diverse, ranging from high academic expectations to social comparisons and familial pressure. Hypnotherapy offers a natural, non-invasive method to help children manage their performance pressure. Through targeted relaxation and reprogramming of the subconscious, children can learn to approach challenges with greater calm. Numerous success stories demonstrate the effectiveness of this method.
What is performance pressure?
Pressure to perform arises when children feel that their self-esteem and worth depend on their academic or extracurricular achievements. While a certain level of challenge can be motivating, excessive pressure can negatively affect a child's well-being and mental health.
What are typical symptoms of performance pressure?
The symptoms can be physical, emotional, or behavioral:
Emotional symptoms:
- Persistent fear of failure
- Self-doubt and perfectionism
- Irritability and mood swings
Physical symptoms:
- Stomach aches or headaches
- Sleep disturbances
- Fatigue and exhaustion
Behavioral changes:
- Avoidance of academic challenges
- Withdrawal from social activities
- Excessive self-criticism
What are common causes of performance pressure?
Performance pressure in children can be triggered by various factors:
- High academic expectations: Children may feel the need to always achieve top grades.
- Comparison with others: Constant comparison with classmates or siblings can create stress.
- Parental pressure: Parents with very high expectations can unintentionally increase performance pressure.
- Performance-oriented society: A societal focus on success and achievement contributes to the fear of failure.
- Extracurricular activities: Too many commitments in sports, music, or other areas can overwhelm children.
How hypnotherapy can help with performance pressure
Hypnotherapy is an effective and non-invasive method to reduce performance pressure in children. It helps release inner tension and strengthen self-confidence.
How Hypnotherapy works:
- Deep relaxation: Children learn to let go of stress and tension.
- Visualization: Positive imagery helps develop a relaxed attitude toward challenges.
- Subconscious work: Negative thought patterns are replaced with empowering thoughts.
Benefits of Hypnotherapy:
- Natural, medication-free method
- Customizable to the individual
- Quick and lasting effects
Client success stories
"Wir sind begeistert, was Du in so kurzer Zeit für unsere Tochter erreicht hast.
Unsere 11-jährige Tochter quälte sich unter Vermeidung sozialer Interaktion durch den Schulalltag. Eine jahrelange Odyssee von Therapie zu Therapie bringt auch uns als Eltern an den Rand der Verzweiflung.
Du hast uns die Hoffnung zurückgeben, dass der Alltag für sie nicht jeden Tag ein Spießrutenlauf bleiben muss!
Mit deiner sympathischen, gelassenen und einfühlsamen Art hast du schnell unser Vertrauen und das unserer Tochter gewonnen. Bereits nach der ersten Sitzung gelang es ihr, wieder am Unterricht in ihrer Klasse teilzunehmen. Mit jeder Sitzung sehen wir ein Stück mehr Selbstsicherheit und Gelassenheit bei unserer Tochter.
Wir wünschen uns, dass Carlos und Du noch vielen weiteren Menschen Ängste nehmen und Selbstvertrauen geben könnt. Es wird uns ein Vergnügen sein, anderen von unserer positiven Erfahrung mit deiner Hypnosetherapie zu berichten!" (Christian)
Free initial consultation

Whenever you feel ready, I can help you in two ways:
- With hypnosis sessions, where we work together to find solutions and create positive changes for your concerns.
- With workshops and lectures on hypnosis for children, teenagers, and families.
Simply schedule an appointment with me for an introduction:
https://calendly.com/saratewes/vorgespraech
I look forward to seeing you.
Your Sara